Abortion is common.

People have abortions everywhere, every day.

Worldwide, more than half of all unintended pregnancies end in abortion.

It’s essential health care for millions of women, girls, and anyone who can become pregnant.

So why don’t we talk about it more?

Abortion is still surrounded by misinformation, myths, and stigma.

This can lead to an environment of secrecy, where people don’t talk about abortion because they fear judgment and rejection.

It can even push people to have unsafe abortions—a leading cause of maternal deaths.

That’s why it’s important for us to talk about abortion.

Here's how.

First, start with compassion and understanding of other people’s experiences.

Don’t be judgmental.

Believing that everyone has the right to make decisions about their own bodies means no one should have to justify their decision to seek an abortion.

If you are speaking with someone who is against abortion, don’t start a debate.

Try to ask open-ended questions about people’s attitudes and experiences with abortion.

For example: “If someone you love had an abortion, how would you want that experience to be for them?”

Transformation happens slowly, and usually not by losing an argument.

Sometimes, hearing a story or being asked a thoughtful question can be enough.

Second, choose your words carefully.

Anti-abortion groups use language that is intentionally negative and shaming.

Avoid stigmatizing language.

You can say “anti-abortion” instead of “pro-life”, “fetus” or “embryo” instead of “unborn child.”

Focus your message on the pregnant person, their health, safety, and rights.

Be inclusive in your language - people of all ages and religions, from every walk of life, choose to have abortions.

Couples often make the choice together, and men can play an active supporting role.

Third, use reliable sources and references.

There is a lot of misinformation out there.

This can harm and confuse abortion seekers.

Try to counter this with accurate information from trusted sources, like doctorswithoutborders.org and howtouseabortionpill.org.

Be a resource for those in need.

Safe abortion care is health care.

So, let's break the silence!